Anonymous asked:

I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now but lately we've been fighting a lot and getting on each other's nerves. it's so bad to the point where he doesn't want me to wear certain things when I'm with my friends because he's so afraid of loosing me. he's a great guy, but I can't deal with this for any longer. I want him to change but I don't know how to tell him. he gets so jealous, I don't know what to do anymore

You need to sit down with him and do a couple of things. You should reassure him and say that he can trust you and that you won’t do anything to hurt him. Also, let him know that you should have the freedom to wear what you want and ask why he may not want you wearing certain things. You can’t force someone to change for you, but if something may not be working, you can change a way you both handle things rather than the person himself.
Tell him how you feel and talk about why you always argue and see if it is really worth it!

Love Maddy xx - Always be Fab

Anonymous asked:

my ex broke up with me nearly 2 months ago now. it has been the hardest 2 months of my life. i have attempted twice and i think about him all the time. i cry every night and i cannot distract myself from him. i love him so much and i dont know how to stop. everyone tells me i can do better and that i deserve better but i cant stop loving him. we had the strongest connection and it has all been taken away from me. it feels as though no one understands and no one is really there for me. help :(

First of all, you should read the heartbreak section of my ‘handling page’
Secondly, you need to realise that after a breakup there is a break in routine, that is the lifestyle you once lived with your boyfriend is not the same anymore and it is a change. Sometimes in life things will happen to break your heart or have you feel like you have never felt before and i know it is hard, I know you miss him and still love him and it is okay to cry. But there is a time when you need to get up and look into the mirror and tell yourself that although what you had with him was wonderful and it is a chapter of your life that you will cherish, it is time to move forward. You can’t change what happened and the only thing you can do now is handle it the best way you can. I promise that in time things will get better but only if you decide that you will appreciate what happened and remember the great relationship but you will move on with your life. Draw on support groups and friends and meet new people, get out to experience new things and learn to live your life again. The pain will go away.

Love Maddy xx - Always be Fab

Anonymous asked:

So I'm still in love with my ex he was my first boyfriend (I'm 16) we dated for 5 months - he says he misses me but doesn't want to commit to a relationship but... We are both going on music camp (I go to a girl school & his school is our brother school so we go together) and he said that "we'll see what happens after camp" but I don't really know what that means.... Please help xx

Hey! Understandably you miss each other, especially since he was your first however you broke up for a reason and unless you want to be with him again you should think about what went wrong last time and how it may be different this time. As for camp, i think he meant to wait until camp and don’t expect or not expect anything and just to go with the flow.

Love Maddy xx - Always be Fab

Anonymous asked:

I have this girlfriend, and I thought I loved her and I though she made me happy, but Iv been talking to this other girl and she makes me so happy, it's a happy that Iv never felt, and now I'm questioning my love for my girlfriend and idk what to do because the new girl who makes me super happy likes me.

I think you need to think of how you truly feel about each girl and why you could have begun having feelings for someone else when you had a girlfriend. Think about not having your girlfriend and see if you would be able to handle not being with her then imagine being with the other girl. As soon as you know how you feel, you need to let your girlfriend know as it is unfair on her for you to stay with her if you don’t feel the same way. If you are unsure of how you feel then maybe steer clear of the other girl and hang with your girlfriend and see if you are happy.

Love Maddy xx - Always be Fab

Anonymous asked:

well hi, i just need some advice. my family has been bestfriends with another family for almost 10 years. their son is bestfriends with my brother and last month me and their son made out. the other night when everyone fell asleep, we got outstandingly close to having sex. i don't know what to do. i think i'm starting to like him. he's the sweetest guy i can think of. i think my brother is getting suspicious of our realtionship, or whatever you call it, too, what should do?

Hey! I think you should figure out how you feel about him by interacting with him more. I believe in a way it is good that your family knows him and has none him for a long time so he is a familiar face. On the other hand i think if something was to happen between you two and you were to become more than friends, i think you should atleast tell your brother so he doesnt feel as though you are going behind his back.
The heart wants what it wants so figure out how you feel and go from there

Love Maddy xx - Always be Fab

Anonymous asked:

I NEED HELP. Basically I had a party on Friday night and I was drunk, I acted really stupidly and I kissed a lot of different people and I had sexual activity with two of them (we didn't have sex but you know) and I really really regret it, I wanted it at the time but I'm not the kind of girl to go around with lots of different boys. I know everybody makes mistakes but I'm really scared about what about are going to say and I just wish I never put myself in the situations, what do I do?

Accept what happened. It is in the past and you can’t change what happened. I guess anything that comes your way, you have to take it and accept it and know for next time that if that is what you are like when you are drunk and you don’t want to act the way you did again, you should drink less and be more mindful of your behaviours! Don’t let it get you down, it is one of those experiences in life where you think wow did I do that and if you regretted it, you know not to do it again!

Love Maddy xx - Always be Fab

Anonymous asked:

Hi there :) so I've been talking to this guy for like 4 months now, and It's gotten pretty serious but I still have suspicions. How can I ask him if he is sleeping with anyone else without seeming too clingy? Also, how long should I have this go on without an official title to our relationship?

I am hoping by talking to him you mean you interact with him in real life too so I think if you are suspicious about that, or curious would be more of a correct term, just ask him how his love life is or if he has any special girls or something like that without being so blunt and getting straight to the point! There is not set time frame from when people who talk to eachother move from friends to something more so it just depends on the people. From the way you are talking I am guessing you would like to take the next step so maybe ask him where you both stand with eachother, meaning if he just wants to be friends etc. !

Love Maddy xx - Always be Fab

Anonymous asked:

im 15 but my breasts have barely developed. i know your probably going to say theres nothing wrong with that or im just a late bloomer but im really down about it. i feel alone and wrong. all the women in my family have large breasts.whats up with me

There is nothing wrong with that. Everyone has a different body type! I have very small boobs and my sister & mum have much larger breasts. I think that you should learn to love your body and embrace it just the way it is. Appreciate what you have because often girls with larger boobs complain that they hurt when they run or cause them to not be able to wear certain clothes etc. It is just how your body was made and is something you need to learn to accept and love! You are not wrong, there are many girls with small boobs, like me! It is 100% normal I promise.

Love Maddy xx - Always be Fab

Anonymous asked:

My best friend dated my ex, he was emotionally abusive. He started doing the same to her and after I opened her eyes to what was happening he blamed me for it and said I was the biggest mistake of his life. I'm not sure how to deal with that. Help?

You should not be to blame for his abusiveness. Do not believe what he says or make yourself feel bad about it because it is his choice how he handles situations and the decisions he makes and it is wrong for him to blame you. I think you should talk to your friend about how he treats her and see if he is right for her but don’t let what he said get you down!

Love Maddy xx - Always be Fab

Anonymous asked:

My parents told me we might be moving half way around the world and I know it's an amazing opportunity, but I don't know if I can leave everything and everyone I love. Nothing's confirmed yet and I'm already crying all the time.

It can be daunting knowing that you are leaving everything you have come to know so well. It is a big change to your life and understandably you are confused and upset. I think you should just take each day as it comes but know it isn’t confirmed yet so maybe don’t over analyse the situation or thin too much about it until you know for sure what is happening!

Love Maddy xx - Always be Fab

Anonymous asked:

I'm 14 but I think I'm in love with this guy who's a year younger than me. I can't stop thinking about him but I don't know how to talk to him. I'm really shy and insecure but I can't go on without being with him

I think you should take baby steps. Smile at him when he looks at you to begin with and after a bit say hi to him so he knows who you are and sees you are friendly. If you see him around school or bump into eachother maybe have a chat about how his weekend was or what class he just had etc.

It can be scary at the start but try to be confident and know that he is human just like you and that he won’t laugh or run away if you talk to him!

Love Maddy xx - Always be Fab

Anonymous asked:

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and we've always talked about getting married someday. He didn't really want kids but said that when he met me he changed his mind. Recently he's been saying that he doesn't think that having kids someday is a good idea. I've always wanted to become a mother and this is something I'm not willing I budge on. I don't want to have to break up because I love him so much, but I feel like we're not on the same page anymore. I don't know what to do.

I think that at different stages in life you want different things but I think that if he is certain that he does not want children even when you think you are ready to, whenever that may be, then maybe talk to him about how you feel and how it has always been important to you and discuss it with him further. I think that you never really know what parenting is like until it happens so it is possible for one to change their opinions on something!

Love Maddy xx - Always be Fab