Anonymous asked:

Okay so there's this girl who I used to be friends with but stopped because she was racist and homophobic and I couldn't deal with her but she knows everything about me and I'm terrified she'll sabotage me,what do I do? Big fan!

Thank you!

Do not get on her bad side, remain neutral and do not bad mouth her or go out of your way to do anything negative towards her! Go on living your life and enjoy it, dont live in fear because of what she has on you. When you see her, smile if you would like, but at the end of the day, it is her choice whether or not she wants to keep the things about you to herself but if it does so happen that she reveals something about you that you didnt want anyone knowing, it will just show what type of person she is but do not be worried of her spreading your secrets, just stay on good terms and leave it at that.

Love Maddy xx - Always be Fab

Anonymous asked:

My boyfriend of four years just walked out the door and broke every promise he ever made to me. We weren't officially engaged, but we were talking very seriously about getting married. Now I don't know how to cope with my overwhelming sadness :'(

Hey beautiful, I couldn’t imagine what you must be feeling however my only advice to you is this:

After being in a routine of four years, saying good morning to each other and being so used to having each other in your lives and going to not talking much, it is a change and something to get used to. I think you should ask to see him and just talk about everything that went wrong, why it had ti finish and see how he truly feels. If he is strong on not coming back, then I suggest you read the heartbreak section of my Handling page to get a little something from that. But just know that right now, it is okay to cry and miss him and be upset and eat chocolate, but one day you will realise that you shared such great memories and it was a good experience however maybe that chapter of your life has now closed and it is time for something new and fresh. Draw on your friends and family but as I said, tal to him about it and see what happens. I am sorry that you are going through this.

Love Maddy xx - Always be Fab

Anonymous asked:

Okay I have a question... You know how everyone says to separate yourself from toxic friends? What if you are the toxic friend? How can I improve myself for my friends. I'm tired of feeling bossy and mean and just like a bad friend. Thank you.

Be conscious of your actions and think about how they can influence the friendships that you have. Think about how much your friends mean to you and how you would not want to jeopardise that by not treating them with the respect they deserve.Think about things before you say them and imagine if they treated you like that. I am proud that you have recognised your behaviour, that is the first step to change!

Love Maddy xx - Always be Fab

Anonymous asked:

I have the biggest crush on this guy and he likes me back but I don't know how to talk to him and what to say I'm scared I am going to say something stupid and mess everything up

Make sure you remain calm and tell yourself that he is human too and he probably feels the same way! The more time you hang out together the more comfortable you will feel around him so maybe start messaging each other and say hey and smile whenever you see him just to start off with and go from there!

Love Maddy xx - Always be Fab

Anonymous asked:

There's a new boy in my german and math class for 4 weeks and I have a big crush on him and we bkth stare at each other during class, but I'm too shy to talk to him, because I don't know what to do or say, do you have some advice for me? Xx

Baby steps! Start off by smiling, then say hi the next time you catch him looking. If you see him in the hallway at school say hey as well and maybe ask about what homework you had or something just to break the ice!

Love Maddy xx - Always be Fab

Anonymous asked:

I'm a shy person and I don't speak to my mum about anything personal or relationships etc. I've got my first proper boyfriend and I'm 15 but I'm not sure how to tell my mum, I'm not one of those people who would know how to straight up tell her, please can you give me advice on how to?

I think that it can be quite nerve wracking telling your mum this, especially when you don’t have an open relationship with her. Maybe ease into it by bringing him up or ask if you can hang out with him and then she will ask questions and you can tell her what is going on rather than you having to pull her aside and tell her because it takes a lot of courage to do that!

Love Maddy xx - Always be Fab

Anonymous asked:

so my bf apparently cheated on me awhile back(nothing major he was like dared to go out with another girl) i confronted him bout it & we made up which is great but now im like overthinking it & almost wanting a break should i or no?? any advice??????

I think it is normal to feel this way but at the same time you are probably feeling insecure because of this other girl and you just need reassurance from your boyfriend that nothing like that will happen again and that you are the only one he wants to be with! Let him know how you feel!

Love Maddy xx - Always be Fab